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Ok Single

It is a perception that you are lonely if you are single . As it's a week of celebrating love ,  self loathing status do appear in social sites to which we must not get  carried away . There are manny for which a valentine day is like a normal day . Being single is absolutely Ok and we need not offend ourselves . It is in fact a new feeling when you spend most of the time with yourself which brings equal happiness as others . 
In the age where we are bombarded with romantic movies , songs , T.V shows , novels , love pendants , love trincklets it's  hard to accept that an individual can be  still single . Whether you are single by choice or circumstance it is a life too that can be thoroughly enjoyable . Oh! Fear Not _ You are beautiful  too to be part of someone's life . Resit the journey of being single  and rejoice with what  you have  this valentine .
There are many who are self confessed addict of falling in  love . They push hard to fall in love and at the  end they fail desperately . They hardly know " we can not help with,  to whom we fall in love " and honestly  it's never a sin to be a single . In order to get rid of this obsession of falling in love they need to think that love is not in our hands and it's never easy to be loved and get loved .
Among those who love and hesitate to speak up and still tag themselves as single ,  they must follow the simple rule of relationship " if you are love , let them know , if they say no than let them go " . Mind you it's not about for time being but it's for forever you want love.
There are many ways to feel ok if you are still single and you need to proud of .

1. It shows you love yourself :-
Many people's view is that if you are single that means you can't find one . In reality it's not the case , you are single because it is more important to love thyself , give a much space to know yourself . Frankly  it is smart to wait to right person to come into life rather getting love for wrong reason .

2. It helps to understand people :-
When you are single you look at people and know about them with much freedom . The experience of spending time with new different people is always a worth . Always it gives an option to learn new things . Remember every person you meet knowns something that might help you . So spend time with different people around you .

3. You won't have Ex drama :-
Those who are love , they will admit that their journey of love have had lots of sweet and bitter memories . Being single does not effect either way  . Ex drama does really has negative impact in any relationship . In that way singles has an upper hand .

4.Helps to mandate yourself :-
There are  numerous occasions​ where many of us wants to change ourselves for better . You can freely work on yourself . The truth is , one needs an apt partner to be with forever in his or her life . Even if you are willing to be a partner of someone's life  in future , there is always good chance to be best of yourself .

5. Rediscover your passion :-
Want to try your childhood passion that you have almost forgot ? - work on now . It's the best to take time and reinvent your childhood passion .

Lastly love is a beautiful journey if you are part of it you are fortunate and if aren't part of it for various odd reasons , it's never a problem to offend yourself . You worth for everything  that you got in life , be happy …

" Love or love not you are  still lovable "

  

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