Break Up Pain Does Differ

Broken heart does hurts than a bleeding wound

We are obsessed  with the perception "men will be a men" in the context of men not showing emotion , having multiple partners , not showing compassion so on . When in terms of emotion men are said to be generally emotion less being or less emotion being to be precise . People have preconceived notion that men do not have at all feelings  . But in fact the truth is men have a much harder time processing these feelings . Social expectations taught the men to not to show any emotion and bounded by saying men need to be hard . This becomes a huge problem in relationships because they suppress their feelings ,emotions since they are not acceptable in social outlets .
It is quite obvious that men and women differ in the way one express their emotions . There are many differences when coping up a break up in a relationship . Women feel more pain than man , having said that there are long term devastating outcomes of a broken relationship in men . Most men feel anger or confusion whenever they break up from a relationship . Guys aren't just wired to get over it . They get stuck in the same frame of mind when they are away from their loved ones . According to studies  women reported higher levels of both physical and emotional pain . A women can recover fully and come out emotionally strong whereas a men never fully recovers . The prime reason being, men does not get rid of the of the heartbreak pain , it sinks and men always try to compete with other in order to replace what he has lost .
Secondly there are chances where a men don't get the sympathy , care , attention as compared to freinds of girls . In general guys don't have a huge  supportive group who can help to to deal with the heart break .
Thirdly a guy is always worried about the aftermath of his break up . He is worried about the kind of person his loved one is in relation , can he be better for her , can he emotionally and physically satisfy . Those questions keeping stinging them not only in short term but long term too .

The truth is a heart break always hurts , in order to heal you need to start afresh . Some of these may help to get out of the greiving stage .

Remember Time Heals .

There is no secret to handle things better than surrendering yourself to the time . To get out of the trap of bad times and to welcome good times you need to give time to yourself . Spend the most time for betterment and worth the time you spend  .

Construct Your Thoughts .

In the times of heart break we are bombarded with negative thoughts . Men ridicule themselves for being inadequate or I sufficient when a women initiates a break up . In this  time knowing your strengths , being yourself , concentrating your abilities will help .

Talk To Resolve .

A break up doesn't always means all time end . There are chances you both resolve yourself and move on to the same happy relation . Better mend then end .

Don't Seek Revenge .

Nothing comes from seeking revenge . The idea is that a revenge will feel good for a moment but kills all along . Revenge won't be the go to solution instead a huge set back .

Love is life , who doesn't have ups and downs . It's always welcomed to be a part of a journey no matter how hard it been . Honestly keeping my hand on my heart saying A women's pain and anguish is unmatchable but rarely a men's pain is  soothes ..

A woman never say nor the man show