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A long path , half passed and plenty to go . We all get excited when we turn an year old and this excitement fades when we complete our birthday celebration . Every one of us wait anxiously to that day in a year to celebrate our birthday with freinds and family. Now turning old brings responsibilities that we need  to full fill and take , turning old also brings worries  . Expectations with respect of age are paramount and which brings both pressure and challenges. You woke up on your 23 or 24th birthday , wondering about dead lock Job , broken relationship, betrayed friendship , empty wallet and analyzing present to future . The following years after college aren't kind to us , moments of college,school almost faded away with time . We are fussed into the real world with large amount of student debt, jobs that barely pay enough to make rent , relationship twisting and turning rapidly . Honestly nobody like being twenty three or twenty four including your life . The next moment w

Have you ever thought why we being so powerful being among rest , most advanced still deficiate of happiness . The reason we are unhappy need to be accessed and mend it quickly to avoid it growing deep and harming us . My simple answer to this thought is " judgement " that is one of the prime accuse which kills our happiness . Sponsoring judgement is an bad idea as all of us has an own way than others . We are often ready to judge quickly at every juncture of life , whether it is a language and so on . We judge by what he/ she wears , what he / she posses , whether he or she got a good job , handsome package , we judge looking size of biceps or breast size and certify  some one looks good enough . There are plenty of examples that disappoints us to name as we are social beings , who are believed to stay together. In recent times it has known that we simply judge others the moment we are aware of it . Does judging others benefits ? To answer this simple question we need to be

Just we mean it life , More than half being untrue , Every time showing fake or new . Manny friends in social site , Non standing by your side , We learnt to smile wide , Beneath each huge painful tide . We make most to impress A make up,  a bulk up Or pretty hue dress Everything seems in vain If not one stands in someone's sorrow and pain . Many of us are well dressed , But let's not forget we are stressed . We say we love , I love , Few mean rest play, We have plenty to say , Promise to love and stay . This is how we say we're fine , Hiding those dark clouds Pretending to shine . This is you and we , A life confusing , Very few living,rest assuming ….

It was their first meet  since they fall in love , breaking the silence Girl - Hello ! Boy - Hii Girl - Before we move ahead I want to say something real about me . Boy - ?????????? Girl - As you can see I am fat Boy - And ? Girl - I think I don't have any achievements other than few printed certificates . Boy - Then ? Girl - I have got these under eyes , wrinkled skin . Boy - So? Girl - I have an ugly  past . Boy - Then ? Girl - ………………. Boy - I think you missed something . Girl - ???????????? Boy - You said you are busty but honestly you can't help . You might be fat since childhood. Those certificates nor achievements define you . Those wrinkles did not effect your eternal beauty . Finally who doesn't have a ugly past . Girl - ……………………. Boy - I missed something to say . Girl - ?????????? Boy - No matter how you are , you are beautiful. More to that you are real … I love you

Deep down somewhere we all need love to live . Air, food ,shelter ,cloths are definitely all essential to live but without love all are void . Sometimes we are not aware of what we want and we honestly want to be loved and to live . Love isn't it more than necessary . When a baby borns the best gift he or she can get is mother's love . Even animals seek love , so all living beings . Young or old we always seek love and every one in the world does. Love , the deepest emotion rather a strange emotion that engulf us into a different world , a world of happiness,joy and many mesmerizing moments . True love gives all the possibilities to relish a beautiful life . This emotion being so powerful that it can give immense support and contentment to the deeply hurt heart . We get hurt and we are betrayed, we fail but still this one emotion keeps us going , hoping each day will win and bring happiness in life . True love has different shades and inspiration that gives immense hope in

How beautiful it would if we count all those blessings and remember those who made life better in some way or other . Every one of us got a beautiful life with those all ups and downs along the path . Those dark days taught many lessons and bright days brought joys . The days pass by moments are remembered or forgotten , there are memories that cherished but there are few moments we express gratitude .The need of showing gratitude is the need of hour as we take things granted in life . In busy life those who have helped , showed kindness  need to be expressed gratitude .When we express gratitude its the beginning of generous ,courteous  behavior towards other . It not only enhances your relationship towards that person but increases your value . Being grateful for what you have in your life is important as it fosters happiness . Embracing gratitude also helps in being optimistic and helps in building genuine relationship .The main reason people are not grateful to the things they ha

Relationship is the only ship that can ferry someone all along through  a happy  life .  Ever wondered why we are not able to keep a relationship ? Do  we humans are  inept to make a long lasting relationship ,had we forget to love or  forgot what true love is ? Why we miserably fail when it comes in terms of having a healthy   a relationship ? Love life is not as easy as one thinks it needs  courage , pain and devotion . If one have to answer to all these question  ,one must introspect themselves and their relationship . The whole problem when we look at most of the broken relationship is that  they simply do not value their relationship nor the person they love . Every time they believe that they can fall in love easily , if it turns to broken relationship than they have great chance of having another relationship . That is fatal and it always turns so . Relationships are meant to kept even when it gets worse however it's true that we need to.move on when  there are no hope lef

Life is all  about B-birth and D-death in between C-choice . You can not alter life nor death but you can change C-choice . We are what we choose to be and it's the choice we make that  decides our destiny.  The choice of what you have to do and what you love to do puzzles our mind leading to obstacles in life . It is obvious that we are happy when we do what we love to but manny of us hold back . Life gives too many options to choose for and the choices decided the place we will be . It's opportunity with options that we deal with in our life . Generally there are two options heads from which we always choose viz one - "the things we have to do " second - "the things we love to do" . We always juggle between these two options that depicts the path of life . We know what's the difference it can make when we opt have to instead of love to is the future  outcome ." You have to do" is these days a social pressure that we get and under a enermo

Broken heart does hurts than a bleeding wound We are obsessed  with the perception "men will be a men" in the context of men not showing emotion , having multiple partners , not showing compassion so on . When in terms of emotion men are said to be generally emotion less being or less emotion being to be precise . People have preconceived notion that men do not have at all feelings  . But in fact the truth is men have a much harder time processing these feelings . Social expectations taught the men to not to show any emotion and bounded by saying men need to be hard . This becomes a huge problem in relationships because they suppress their feelings ,emotions since they are not acceptable in social outlets . It is quite obvious that men and women differ in the way one express their emotions . There are many differences when coping up a break up in a relationship . Women feel more pain than man , having said that there are long term devastating outcomes of a broken relat

It is a perception that you are lonely if you are single . As it's a week of celebrating love ,  self loathing status do appear in social sites to which we must not get  carried away . There are manny for which a valentine day is like a normal day . Being single is absolutely Ok and we need not offend ourselves . It is in fact a new feeling when you spend most of the time with yourself which brings equal happiness as others .  In the age where we are bombarded with romantic movies , songs , T.V shows , novels , love pendants , love trincklets it's  hard to accept that an individual can be  still single . Whether you are single by choice or circumstance it is a life too that can be thoroughly enjoyable . Oh! Fear Not _ You are beautiful  too to be part of someone's life . Resit the journey of being single  and rejoice with what  you have  this valentine . There are many who are self confessed addict of falling in  love . They push hard to fall in love and at the  end they

In our busy day to day life , how often we missed the simplicity of life ? We all know it's simple but knowingly or unknowingly we avoid the simplicity and adapt the complex . The real is always simple but the big question is do we deal with simple things in our life ? Can we simplify our life ? The answer is yes we can . Life will be much happier if we care for simplicity . Most of us make things more complicated and some how find a solution to it which may or may not be well desired one . Life has made up with a only simple notion  that is to love and live .  In order to get success the simple theory is hard work . If we take each and every corner of our life we always try to follow basics but moreover in complex manner . For an instance the approach of a person towards a milestone must be by staying in present and doing his best on a single day basis , but what we generally do is delay our work leaving for tomorrow . Hence the simple logic behind the success made it so comple

The year has began and it's the fourth day , The days are  slipping thick and fast . All of us had welcomed in a positive note. The past 2k16 had left us with  memories , dreams and aspirations .Few moments that one had cherished , some night mares one had to surpass and move on  . We need to look into all the aspects of the concluded year . There are number of reasons why we need to access and progress in life .  We need to evaluate the past year on the aspects for personal inventory .We need to look for the following # 1 Do we  feel more positive ? # 2 Have we learned from our mistakes ? # 3 Have we are aware of our strengths and weakness ? # 4 Have we discovered ourselves and what we want ? # 5 Have we conquered our comfort zones and dared to reach our ambitions ? If we have lived the best , spent the best time with ourselves it's a great start for this new year . This new year always gives a chance for the mistakes to be mended and bought into account with new resolut