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Have to Vs Love to

Life is all  about B-birth and D-death in between C-choice . You can not alter life nor death but you can change C-choice . We are what we choose to be and it's the choice we make that  decides our destiny.  The choice of what you have to do and what you love to do puzzles our mind leading to obstacles in life . It is obvious that we are happy when we do what we love to but manny of us hold back . Life gives too many options to choose for and the choices decided the place we will be . It's opportunity with options that we deal with in our life . Generally there are two options heads from which we always choose viz one - "the things we have to do " second - "the things we love to do" . We always juggle between these two options that depicts the path of life . We know what's the difference it can make when we opt have to instead of love to is the future  outcome ." You have to do" is these days a social pressure that we get and under a enermo

Break Up Pain Does Differ

Broken heart does hurts than a bleeding wound We are obsessed  with the perception "men will be a men" in the context of men not showing emotion , having multiple partners , not showing compassion so on . When in terms of emotion men are said to be generally emotion less being or less emotion being to be precise . People have preconceived notion that men do not have at all feelings  . But in fact the truth is men have a much harder time processing these feelings . Social expectations taught the men to not to show any emotion and bounded by saying men need to be hard . This becomes a huge problem in relationships because they suppress their feelings ,emotions since they are not acceptable in social outlets . It is quite obvious that men and women differ in the way one express their emotions . There are many differences when coping up a break up in a relationship . Women feel more pain than man , having said that there are long term devastating outcomes of a broken relat