Have to Vs Love to

Life is all  about B-birth and D-death in between C-choice . You can not alter life nor death but you can change C-choice . We are what we choose to be and it's the choice we make that  decides our destiny.  The choice of what you have to do and what you love to do puzzles our mind leading to obstacles in life . It is obvious that we are happy when we do what we love to but manny of us hold back . Life gives too many options to choose for and the choices decided the place we will be . It's opportunity with options that we deal with in our life .

Generally there are two options heads from which we always choose viz one - "the things we have to do " second - "the things we love to do" . We always juggle between these two options that depicts the path of life . We know what's the difference it can make when we opt have to instead of love to is the future  outcome ." You have to do" is these days a social pressure that we get and under a enermous   pressure we  let it go "what you love" and butcher happiness . Strangely we follow what others look good at not what we are good in .

Social expectations and other pressure tend to give us the opportunity to abstain what we really love to do on the other hand if we get rid of this pressure we are bestowed by success and happiness  in life . You need to be bold enough to do what you love to do . Many of us regret afterwards when there aren't any opportunities to pursue what you love to .

I am sharing two different cases which differentiates why we need to do what we love to do than have to do .

A man of high caliber wanted to an author . He is good in studies and other activities from his school days . But he took engineer as a career looking at others success and circumstances . Now when, he is strugling to cope of with the stress level he felt quit drowned . Whenever he thinks of what he loved is writing . He regrets .

In a different case a girl who is equally intelligent and capable of acheiving acedmic success opted for being a dancer forgoing many essentials . One could feel the joy in her eyes when she dances . During her busy days too she would manage few hours from it to practice dance . She was trolled by many to forgo dancing , she was under enormous pressure but she did what she knew best and loved to do . Now for her skilful dancing she was recently rewarded and won many hearts .
We are here to live our lives joyfully ,without worrying about anything at least minimise worrying . These are the following few reasons why we should choose what we love to do ..

# It keeps you happy

At the end of anything we access ourselves  by how happy we are and that's the difference we want to make . Happiness is only we strive for , doing the things we love gives immense happiness .

# It keeps you going

There are some days when we are completely drained and we are not in any mood to work on any more . But if we do what we love than it's a natural thing that it keeps you going  . As you will definitely enjoy your work .

# Increases productivity

Doing the work you love will keep you more engaged , dedicated towards the work with lots of enthusiasm . If studies are believed those who do what they love to doubles their productivity than those who don't .

# It keeps motivated

Keeping yourself for an extra hour , doing work vigraously taking no offs are the signs that you will find in yourself if do what you love . It always give an extra motivation to go a mile ahead .

All in one it's you who have to make the choice . Let you choose life not life chooses you .Life must be of happiness instead  happiness less .  Live life with no grudges but with the best choices .