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The Art Of Showing Gratitude

How beautiful it would if we count all those blessings and remember those who made life better in some way or other . Every one of us got a beautiful life with those all ups and downs along the path . Those dark days taught many lessons and bright days brought joys . The days pass by moments are remembered or forgotten , there are memories that cherished but there are few moments we express gratitude .The need of showing gratitude is the need of hour as we take things granted in life . In busy life those who have helped , showed kindness  need to be expressed gratitude .When we express gratitude its the beginning of generous ,courteous  behavior towards other . It not only enhances your relationship towards that person but increases your value . Being grateful for what you have in your life is important as it fosters happiness . Embracing gratitude also helps in being optimistic and helps in building genuine relationship .The main reason people are not grateful to the thing...

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Relationship is the only ship that can ferry someone all along through  a happy  life .  Ever wondered why we are not able to keep a relationship ? Do  we humans are  inept to make a long lasting relationship ,had we forget to love or  forgot what true love is ? Why we miserably fail when it comes in terms of having a healthy   a relationship ? Love life is not as easy as one thinks it needs  courage , pain and devotion . If one have to answer to all these question  ,one must introspect themselves and their relationship . The whole problem when we look at most of the broken relationship is that  they simply do not value their relationship nor the person they love . Every time they believe that they can fall in love easily , if it turns to broken relationship than they have great chance of having another relationship . That is fatal and it always turns so . Relationships are meant to kept even when it gets worse however it's true that w...

Have to Vs Love to

Life is all  about B-birth and D-death in between C-choice . You can not alter life nor death but you can change C-choice . We are what we choose to be and it's the choice we make that  decides our destiny.  The choice of what you have to do and what you love to do puzzles our mind leading to obstacles in life . It is obvious that we are happy when we do what we love to but manny of us hold back . Life gives too many options to choose for and the choices decided the place we will be . It's opportunity with options that we deal with in our life . Generally there are two options heads from which we always choose viz one - "the things we have to do " second - "the things we love to do" . We always juggle between these two options that depicts the path of life . We know what's the difference it can make when we opt have to instead of love to is the future  outcome ." You have to do" is these days a social pressure that we get and under a enermo...

Break Up Pain Does Differ

Broken heart does hurts than a bleeding wound We are obsessed  with the perception "men will be a men" in the context of men not showing emotion , having multiple partners , not showing compassion so on . When in terms of emotion men are said to be generally emotion less being or less emotion being to be precise . People have preconceived notion that men do not have at all feelings  . But in fact the truth is men have a much harder time processing these feelings . Social expectations taught the men to not to show any emotion and bounded by saying men need to be hard . This becomes a huge problem in relationships because they suppress their feelings ,emotions since they are not acceptable in social outlets . It is quite obvious that men and women differ in the way one express their emotions . There are many differences when coping up a break up in a relationship . Women feel more pain than man , having said that there are long term devastating outcomes of a broken relat...

Ok Single

It is a perception that you are lonely if you are single . As it's a week of celebrating love ,  self loathing status do appear in social sites to which we must not get  carried away . There are manny for which a valentine day is like a normal day . Being single is absolutely Ok and we need not offend ourselves . It is in fact a new feeling when you spend most of the time with yourself which brings equal happiness as others .  In the age where we are bombarded with romantic movies , songs , T.V shows , novels , love pendants , love trincklets it's  hard to accept that an individual can be  still single . Whether you are single by choice or circumstance it is a life too that can be thoroughly enjoyable . Oh! Fear Not _ You are beautiful  too to be part of someone's life . Resit the journey of being single  and rejoice with what  you have  this valentine . There are many who are self confessed addict of falling in  love . They push hard ...

Simply your life

In our busy day to day life , how often we missed the simplicity of life ? We all know it's simple but knowingly or unknowingly we avoid the simplicity and adapt the complex . The real is always simple but the big question is do we deal with simple things in our life ? Can we simplify our life ? The answer is yes we can . Life will be much happier if we care for simplicity . Most of us make things more complicated and some how find a solution to it which may or may not be well desired one . Life has made up with a only simple notion  that is to love and live .  In order to get success the simple theory is hard work . If we take each and every corner of our life we always try to follow basics but moreover in complex manner . For an instance the approach of a person towards a milestone must be by staying in present and doing his best on a single day basis , but what we generally do is delay our work leaving for tomorrow . Hence the simple logic behind the success made it so c...

Eve Of New Year

The year has began and it's the fourth day , The days are  slipping thick and fast . All of us had welcomed in a positive note. The past 2k16 had left us with  memories , dreams and aspirations .Few moments that one had cherished , some night mares one had to surpass and move on  . We need to look into all the aspects of the concluded year . There are number of reasons why we need to access and progress in life .  We need to evaluate the past year on the aspects for personal inventory .We need to look for the following # 1 Do we  feel more positive ? # 2 Have we learned from our mistakes ? # 3 Have we are aware of our strengths and weakness ? # 4 Have we discovered ourselves and what we want ? # 5 Have we conquered our comfort zones and dared to reach our ambitions ? If we have lived the best , spent the best time with ourselves it's a great start for this new year . This new year always gives a chance for the mistakes to be mended and bought into account ...